Create the Love Story You’ve Always Dreamed Of
Break free from the past, find your perfect match, and create a relationship full of love that evolves and thrives—starting today.
“Isn’t Your Focus Geared Towards Entrepreneurs, Tom?”
As someone who helps entrepreneurs unlock their potential, I’ve seen how personal and professional fulfillment are deeply intertwined, and I’ve discovered that the principles of mindset, strategy, and implementation don’t just apply to business—they’re transformative for relationships too.
Over the years, one of the most common questions my clients ask is how to use these empowering teachings to create deeper, more fulfilling personal connections.
Many entrepreneurs struggle to balance their personal lives while building their dreams.
I bridge the gap, helping you break through limiting beliefs, navigate challenges, and create fulfilling relationships—because success isn’t just about what you achieve, it’s about who you share your life with.
Just like building a thriving business, creating a successful relationship requires the right mindset to break free from limiting beliefs, a clear strategy to navigate challenges and goals, and consistent implementation to nurture growth.
I bring the same tools and insights that help entrepreneurs achieve greatness to the most important area of life—your relationships—because true success is about thriving in every area of life.
The Romantic Relationship Path
Which Relationship Phase Are You In Right Now?
Free Yourself from Loss: Grieving a Breakup, Divorce, or Death of a Partner
Let go of the pain holding you back. Whether it’s a breakup, divorce, or the loss of a partner, this phase guides you in grieving to create the space for the future you deserve.
Are You Experiencing…
Would You Like…
How You’ll Benefit From Resolving the Past…
Recover Without Suppression
Instead of burying your emotions or running from the pain, discover an effective way to work through the grief, leading to a genuine, authentic outcome
Balance Your Perspective
Eliminate the extremes of idealizing what was lost or blaming the situation, enabling a realistic and empowering view of the experience
Release Emotional Baggage
Free yourself from resentment, guilt, or longing that would otherwise hold you back, allowing yourself the ability to enjoy life fully again
Discover Gratitude
Feel grateful for the relationship and its role in shaping your journey by uncovering what’s unconscious about the experience
Strengthen Your Foundation
Use the insights gained to create more meaningful and balanced relationships in the future, including with yourself
Live empowered
It’s not just about letting go; it’s about transforming the loss into strength, wisdom, and renewed purpose that will serve you for the rest of your life
Our Demartini Method® Programs for Resolving the Past
Available as 1-on-1 Sessions with Tom or as Group Programs
Untangling the Ties: Finding Strength Through Divorce
The Demartini Method® helps you release emotional pain and find clarity after a divorce.
By addressing unresolved feelings, you’ll rediscover your inner balance and gain the strength to move forward with purpose and confidence, creating a foundation for a fulfilling new chapter in life.
Moving On: The Breakup Bounce-Back Breakthrough
A breakup can leave you feeling lost, but using the Demartini Method® offers a way to feel whole again.
By transforming heartache into self-awareness, you’ll release attachments, gain valuable insights, and open yourself to new possibilities with resilience and clarity.
Going Through Grief: Living Life After Loss
The Demartini Method® supports you in navigating the profound loss of someone close to you, such as a partner.
By honoring your emotions and your memories, this method helps you find peace, gratitude, and the courage to carry forward with love and meaning in your life.
Feeling Ready to Take the Next Step?
Self Discovery or New Beginnings
After a breakup, divorce, or the loss of a partner, many people feel called to focus on themselves. If that resonates with you, we invite you to explore our Self-Discovery Path.
Alternatively, once you’ve completed Phase A: Resolving Loss and you’re ready to open your heart to new possibilities, you can continue with Phase B: Finding a New Romantic Partner.
The Romantic Partner Accelerator: Finding Your Ideal Partner and Starting a Meaningful Romantic Relationship
Have you ever wondered why leaving it to chance often leads to mismatches or frustration? This phase empowers you to move beyond luck and guesswork, so you can naturally attract a partner who resonates with your authentic self. Imagine confidently navigating the dating scene, knowing exactly what you want and how to find it—wouldn’t that change everything? Create a meaningful, lasting connection faster than you ever thought possible.
Are You Experiencing…
Would You Like…
How You’ll Benefit From the Romantic Partner Accelerator…
Attract the Partner You Desire
You’ll gain a clear understanding of the traits and qualities that align with your values, ensuring you know exactly what you’re looking for in a partner, which makes it easier to recognize and attract the right person
Balance Your Perceptions
By balancing your views of traits and anti-traits, you’ll eliminate emotional extremes, enabling you to approach relationships with a clear, realistic perspective, and attract someone truly compatible
Create Lasting Love
By addressing potential challenges before they arise, you’ll create the conditions for an effective, more loving relationship, ensuring you build something meaningful right from the start
Recognize the Right Partner
You’ll develop the ability to identify the traits of your ideal partner in real-life connections, helping you avoid wasting time on mismatched relationships and focusing on meaningful ones
Resolve Unconscious Fears
Resolving unresolved fears and emotional blocks prepares you to step into a partnership with confidence and openness, increasing your readiness to meet and connect with your ideal partner
Break Free from Past Patterns
You’ll break free from unconscious cycles of attraction and avoidance, paving the way for an effective, more balanced relationship that aligns with your values and long-term desires, ensuring you create a partnership that is fulfilling
Our Romantic Partner Accelerator Is Available in 2 Levels
Both Are Available as 1-on-1 Sessions with Tom or as Group Programs
Romantic Partner Accelerator – Level 1: Curating Your Perfect Match
With over 7 billion people in the world, how do you choose the one who is truly right for you?
Most people leave it to chance, settling for relationships that don’t fulfill them from the start or hoping the “right one” will magically appear.
But what if you could pinpoint exactly what you want—and just as importantly, what you don’t—and set yourself on a clear path to finding that person?
This program gives you the tools and insights to define your ideal partner with precision, so you know exactly who you’re looking for and how to recognize them.
Think about it: when most people are asked what they want in a partner, they come up with a few general qualities, but the rest is fuzzy. No wonder it’s so hard to find the right person!
That’s where Tom’s Ideal Partner C.U.R.E. comes in. It’s the foundational method within the Romantic Partner Accelerator.
C.U.R.E. is designed not only to help you clarify the specific traits and anti-traits that resonate most with your authentic self but also to ensure you’ll know when you’ve met the right person.
Through dozens of targeted questions and guided exercises, you’ll move beyond vague ideas and build a comprehensive understanding of the partner you’re seeking.
Imagine you’re about to build your dream home. Would you start construction without a blueprint, hoping it turns out the way you envisioned? Of course not! Yet many people approach relationships this way, entering the dating world without a clear plan and wondering why things don’t work out.
This program acts as your blueprint, giving you the clarity and focus to attract a relationship that aligns with your values and desires from the very beginning.
By the end of this program, you’ll have a crystal-clear understanding of what you want, what you don’t, and how to recognize the partner who matches your vision. With this roadmap in hand, you’ll approach relationships with confidence and purpose.
Why leave your most important connection to chance when you can take control and design the love life you deserve in Tom’s Romantic Partner Accelerator?
Romantic Partner Accelerator – Level 2: Clearing the Path to Find Love
Now that you’ve defined the traits and anti-traits of your ideal partner using the C.U.R.E. Method in Level 1, it’s time to take the next step: resolving the emotional charges attached to those traits.
In Level 2, you’ll dive deep into the Demartini Method® to balance your perceptions, so you can attract the right partner while avoiding the fears, phobias, and negative patterns that may have held you back in the past.
This program has two key focuses:
By addressing both the traits and anti-traits, you give your unconscious mind permission to seek the desired traits in a single person without fear or avoidance.
This clears the emotional distortion that can cloud your judgment, empowering you to recognize and attract a partner who aligns with your values.
Level 2 transforms your clarity from Level 1 into actionable alignment, helping you approach relationships with confidence, balance, and authenticity.
Why leave your most important relationship to chance?
This program empowers you to take control of your romantic future by addressing the emotional patterns and fears that may have held you back.
By resolving these issues now, you eliminate the unconscious barriers that would otherwise slow your search or create cycles of repeating struggles in future relationships.
Instead of attracting partners who reflect unresolved dynamics, you’ll approach love with clarity and confidence, recognizing the person who truly aligns with your vision.
Doing this work today not only speeds up finding your ideal partner but also increases the likelihood that your next relationship will be the one.
Step into this journey with intention, break free from what’s been holding you back, and open the door to the fulfilling, lasting connection you deserve.
Feeling Ready to Take the Next Step?
Deepen the Connection or Rekindle the Spark
Deepening your connection right away builds a strong foundation of trust, understanding, and shared growth. By nurturing your bond early, you keep the joy and excitement alive while strengthening your ability to navigate challenges together.
Taking action now by going to Phase D: Deepening the Connection ensures your relationship remains vibrant and fulfilling, preventing drift or misunderstandings before they arise.
Alternatively, you could wait to see if the spark fades. If things begin to feel distant or stagnant, you can always turn to Phase C: Navigating The Choice, designed to reignite the flame and rebuild the bond—or prepares you to part ways with clarity and confidence.
However, waiting until this point often means addressing more emotional challenges and requires greater effort. Phase D, which focuses on deepening the connection, is the ideal path to create a thriving relationship from the start—one where the spark doesn’t have a chance to fade.
Making the Best Choice for Each of You… Together
Explore whether to reignite the flame or part ways with mutual respect. By focusing on what’s best for you as individuals and as a couple, you’ll gain the tools to honor your values and needs, ultimately creating the relationship you desire.
Are You Experiencing…
Would You Like…
How You’ll Benefit…
Identify What’s Missing
Pinpoint what feels off to uncover what’s missing, so you can reach new levels of meaningful partnership
Rebuild Emotional Intimacy
Reconnect on a deeper level by rebuilding trust, vulnerability, and closeness, allowing both of you to be your authentic selves
Improve Communication
Strengthen communication so you and your partner can express yourselves clearly and build mutual understanding
Align Your Vision
Discover what truly matters to each of you, and find ways to create a shared vision for your future, ensuring you follow a fulfilling and united path forward
Grow from Challenges
Collaboratively address issues and transform them into opportunities for growth, strengthening your relationship and building a more resilient partnership
Cultivate Gratitude
Rediscover the positive aspects of your relationship, cultivate gratitude for what you’ve built together, and bring fulfillment back into your connection, setting the stage for what’s next
Our Programs for Couples Needing a Reboot
Both Are Available as Private Sessions with Tom or as Group Programs
Reignite the Flame: The Relationship Revival Blueprint
Does it feel like the spark in your relationship has dimmed or even disappeared?
The honeymoon period—once filled with passion, excitement, and connection—can fade over time, leaving couples feeling like they’re stuck in routines or running on autopilot.
Emotional disconnection, diminished intimacy, and unmet expectations can create distance, even in strong relationships.
This program combines practical tools and advanced techniques to help you reignite the spark and build a thriving relationship.
By integrating Demartini Values, you’ll discover what truly drives you and your partner, so you can align your priorities and understand each other on a deeper level.
Through couples astrology, you’ll gain insight into how your unique energies interact, revealing areas of natural harmony and opportunities for growth.
You’ll also explore advanced relationship strategies for improving communication, rebuilding trust, and reigniting passion, ensuring the techniques are actionable and impactful in your daily life.
This is not just a theoretical program—it’s designed to be highly practical and immediately usable.
You’ll engage in step-by-step exercises to identify areas of disconnection, clarify your shared goals, and address the habits or patterns that have dampened the fire in your relationship.
Whether it’s communicating more effectively, feeling truly valued by your partner, or deepening intimacy, this program provides you with a practical toolkit for lasting success.
By the end of this program, you’ll have the clarity and tools to rebuild intimacy, deepen emotional connection, and rediscover the joy and excitement of your relationship.
It’s time to wake up to the full potential of your partnership, reignite the spark, and form a bond that not only survives but thrives.
Save It or Separate: A Program for Couples at a Crossroads
Have you reached a point in your relationship where you’re questioning whether to stay together or go your separate ways?
If you’ve tried everything to save your relationship but still feel stuck, this program is for you.
It’s not about forcing a decision—it’s about gaining the certainty, clarity, and appreciation you need to move forward, no matter the outcome.
The question at the heart of this journey is: Is this relationship worth saving, and are you both willing to do what it takes?
This program provides a structured, supportive approach to help couples navigate this critical turning point.
Using Demartini Values, you’ll uncover the driving forces behind your behaviors, priorities, and relationship dynamics, helping you align your individual and shared values.
With couples astrology, you’ll explore your compatibility, conflict patterns, and the unique strengths of your partnership.
Combined with advanced relationship strategies, these tools will empower you to approach your relationship with a new perspective, allowing you to appreciate its potential while identifying areas that may no longer serve you.
Through practical exercises and guided discussions, you’ll work together to clarify what’s truly important, address unresolved challenges, and determine whether your relationship has the foundation to move forward.
Whether it’s rediscovering the connection you thought was lost or realizing that parting ways is the best path for both of you, this program ensures you make the decision with mutual respect, understanding, and confidence.
One of the greatest challenges at a crossroads is the fear of future regret. This program helps you address that head-on by ensuring every aspect of your relationship is explored and appreciated.
By gaining a full understanding of your values, strengths, and dynamics, you’ll know you’ve made the right decision—not out of uncertainty or avoidance, but with genuine clarity and peace of mind.
By the end of this program, you’ll have a clear answer to the questions that have been weighing on your relationship.
You’ll walk away with the tools to either rebuild a stronger partnership or embrace a new chapter with gratitude and certainty.
This is your chance to find clarity at the crossroads and honor the next step in your journey, whatever it may be.
Feeling Ready to Take the Next Step?
Deepen the Connection or Move On with Grace
After reigniting the spark or deciding to stay together, the next step is about building on that clarity. Whether you’ve chosen to deepen your bond or move on, this is an opportunity to grow and honor your journey.
If you’ve chosen to stay together, continue with Phase D: Deepening the Connection. This phase helps you strengthen your foundation, take values to the next level, and nurture emotional intimacy, transforming your relationship into one that thrives and evolves.
If parting ways is the decision, move into Phase A: Resolving Loss. This phase supports you in processing emotions, honoring the relationship, and releasing the breakup, so you can move forward with clarity and peace.
Whether you’re staying together or choosing to part, the next phase ensures you move forward with confidence and purpose. Deepen your bond or resolve the loss—either way, this step honors your growth and sets the stage for a fulfilling future.
From Great to Exceptional: Activating True Fulfillment by Relating and Growing Together
Your relationship has a strong foundation, but there’s even more potential to explore. A relationship begins when you connect, but it thrives when you continue to relate. Deepen your connection, engage on a new level, and unlock the fulfillment that comes from truly relating.
Would You Like…
How You’ll Benefit…
Rediscover Authentic Love
Dissolve judgments and unrealistic expectations, allowing you to see and appreciate your partner’s authentic self–creating a foundation of unconditional love and respect, fostering a deeper, more meaningful connection
Strengthen Emotional Intimacy
Understand the emotional dynamics between you and your partner–nurturing a bond that feels emotionally safe, supportive, and fulfilling
Enhance Communication and Understanding
By leveraging your individual and shared values, you’ll gain clarity on what truly matters to each of you–paving the way for better communication, fewer misunderstandings, and a partnership rooted in mutual respect and love
Transform Challenges
Turn conflicts into opportunities for growth by learning how to navigate differences with grace and strengthen your relationship through shared efforts
Align with Your Shared Purpose
Discover your relationship’s unique purpose and potential–aligning your actions and goals to create a partnership that thrives and evolves together
Long-Term Growth and Fulfillment
Gain practical tools and insights to not only deepen your connection now but also sustain and grow it over time–creating a relationship that flourishes in every stage of life
Our Programs for Deepening Your Romantic Connection
Available as Private Sessions with Tom or as Group Programs, Unless Otherwise Noted
Navigating and Relating: The Astrology of You, Me, and Us (Synastry and Composite)
This is a transformative tool that dives deep into how your shared energy manifests as a couple.
By combining the way each of you relates to the other with the energy of the relationship itself, this astrology session offers unparalleled insights into creating a stronger, more fulfilling bond.
You’ll begin to understand your shared purpose, emotional connection, communication styles, and expressions of love, as well as how to navigate challenges with grace, all at a deeper level.
This session offers actionable suggestions tailored to your astrological dynamics, helping you celebrate compatibility, resolve friction, and deepen your connection.
Navigating and Relating is currently available as private sessions only.
Love Beyond Limits: Unconditionally Loving Your Partner’s Authentic Self
Relationships flourish when partners truly see and appreciate each other for who they are.
This program uses the Demartini Method® to help you celebrate your partner’s authentic self, including your partner’s strengths, challenges, and unique traits.
As you work through guided exercises, you’ll experience a renewed sense of appreciation for your partner, fostering a deeper connection.
Whether you’re looking to strengthen an already solid partnership or rebuild after challenges, this program equips you to see your partner—and yourself—through a lens of gratitude, inspiration, and unconditional love.
Heart to Heart: The Art and Science of Connecting, Relating, and Growing as One
Every thriving relationship is built on a foundation of shared understanding and aligned values.
Using Demartini Values and advanced communication techniques, this program will help you discover how you and your partner can relate to one another in meaningful and fulfilling ways.
You’ll gain insights into supporting one another while staying true to yourselves, as well as practical strategies for navigating differences and finding synergy.
Whether it’s deepening emotional intimacy, improving communication, or planning for the future, you’ll leave with tools to create a balanced relationship to strengthen your bond and create a future you both cherish.
Feeling Ready to Take the Next Step?
Ongoing Coaching and Paths to Support You
Couples who have completed Phase D have already laid the groundwork for a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. The journey doesn’t have to stop here—in fact, this is just the beginning of what you can achieve together. Whether you want to continue building your bond, focus on individual growth, or prepare for a new chapter like starting a family with the Parenting Path, there’s a path tailored to your next step.
For couples who want to keep the momentum going, regular coaching sessions are the perfect way to stay connected and continue growing as a couple. These sessions offer ongoing support, personalized insights, and tools to help you navigate challenges and celebrate wins together.
Whether it’s exploring new aspects of your relationship or working through the inevitable shifts that come with time, regular coaching ensures you stay aligned and thriving.
If individual growth is calling you, consider exploring the Self-Discovery Path. This option focuses on deepening your understanding of yourself—your strengths, patterns, and desires—so you can show up as your best self in your relationship and beyond. By focusing on personal empowerment and self-awareness, you’ll gain insights that not only enrich your connection with your partner but also enhance every area of your life.
Whether You Know What You Need or Aren’t Sure, It All Starts with a Diagnostic Session…
Book Your Relationship Diagnostic Session Today
$375
In this 90-minute recorded Zoom session, Tom will uncover what is unique about you and your relationship situation, what constraint is preventing you from getting you to your ideal relationship, and what to do about it.
You’ll come out of the session with a long-term game-plan, an immediate action step, and a set of ways Tom can help you get unstuck and fulfill your desires.
Tom will figure out where your constraint is and what to do to get to the next level in your relationship.